The Matchmaker’s blog

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The Truth About Sparks: Why Conscious Love is a Slow Burn

Many of us are conditioned to believe in the allure of the “spark.” This moment is often celebrated in romantic comedies and novels as the start of something magical - the elusive “love at first sight.” But while the idea of a spark is tempting, is it really the foundation of a lasting, healthy relationship? Many experts say no.

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Elin Ribjer Elin Ribjer

Helen Fisher: What She Taught Us About Conscious Love

The world recently lost a pioneer in the scientific study of love. Dr. Helen E. Fisher, renowned biological anthropologist, passed away at the age of 79, leaving behind a legacy that profoundly shaped how we understand romantic love, attraction, and relationships. We honor what she taught us about love.

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Sofia Fransson Sofia Fransson

Conscious action towards love

Don’t wait around for love to come knocking at your door. It’s time to find your people. Read our 4 steps to love and take conscious action to meet love!

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Gay relationships – how do we attach?

How much do we know about gay attachment patterns and needs? We are more alike than we are different, but there are some super important (and rather interesting) cultural differences that must be understood and respected.

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Matchmaker Love Hacks, how to meet love

People come to us, Matchmakers, looking to find a relationship, but we want to help you meet love. The boring kind of love, that is safe, secure, healthy and sustainable.

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Conscious couples with great relationships

Habits of couples with awesome relationships. We know no pair who has it all together, however, we do know lots of couples who work hard to build happy, healthy, sound relationship bliss. We can be inspired and even learn a thing or two to apply to our own relationships.

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Our dream for better relationships

Lemarc Thomas Matchmaking’s mission for a better world through better relationships. A dream called Roots to Love. Imagine a world where we grow up knowing that we are worthy, that we are good, that we are love.

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Love in the time of Corona

At Lemarc Thomas matchmaking, we are, as you know, completely offline and there is a basic idea behind it: that with a slow, focused approach, we connect more easily, more and more deeply. But if face-to-face disappears for a while then? Yes, then we have to adapt.

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What is a compatible partnership for you?

Are you falling for the wrong people? Being misled by chemistry and hormones? Are you expecting someone to come along and fulfil needs you never knew you had? Not anymore

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Books we recommend

We can highly and wholeheartedly recommend getting stuck into these books to learn about and develop your relationships.

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