The Matchmaker’s blog
The Truth About Sparks: Why Conscious Love is a Slow Burn
Many of us are conditioned to believe in the allure of the “spark.” This moment is often celebrated in romantic comedies and novels as the start of something magical - the elusive “love at first sight.” But while the idea of a spark is tempting, is it really the foundation of a lasting, healthy relationship? Many experts say no.
Helen Fisher: What She Taught Us About Conscious Love
The world recently lost a pioneer in the scientific study of love. Dr. Helen E. Fisher, renowned biological anthropologist, passed away at the age of 79, leaving behind a legacy that profoundly shaped how we understand romantic love, attraction, and relationships. We honor what she taught us about love.
Finding Love Beyond the Fairy Tale: The Journey to Slow, Enduring Love
What if the kind of love you're chasing isn't the one you need? What if the real magic lies in a slower, deeper, and more enduring kind of love—the kind that builds a stable foundation for life's greatest adventures? Find out how in this post..
How do we as Matchmakers work? DN got us covered..
The Swedish newspaper ‘Dagens Nyheter’ and their journalist Helena Sjödin Öberg was curious about matchmaking so we sat down to share our work with her.
One of our love stories shared in DN
We don't often get to do this, but in this DN article one of our success stories is shared..
Recognized as top 10 in the World of Matchmaking..
Delighted to share that our agency has been recognized as one of the world's premier leaders in the industry.
From SvD Perfect Guide, Lyxmäklare i kärlek
Lemarc Thomas featured in SvD Perfect Guide 18th March 2023, Lyxmäklare i kärlek. Lemarc Thomas driver Sveriges mest exklusiva dejtingagentur.
Why a happy relationship depends on a happy inner child
In order for the two adults to reach each other, to connect, we have to take care of our inner child, make sure they are safe, secure and at ease.
Matchmaking Sweden – review of Swedish dating and relationships
What you need to know about dating and relationships in Sweden. I do appreciate the reminder that we are more alike than we are different, but… the quirks of matchmaking Sweden is certainly worth some attention.
Conscious action towards love
Don’t wait around for love to come knocking at your door. It’s time to find your people. Read our 4 steps to love and take conscious action to meet love!
The paradox of dependence in relationships
The paradox with dependence is that “the more effectively dependent people are on one another, the more independent and daring they become”.
Gay relationships – how do we attach?
How much do we know about gay attachment patterns and needs? We are more alike than we are different, but there are some super important (and rather interesting) cultural differences that must be understood and respected.
Matchmaker Love Hacks, how to meet love
People come to us, Matchmakers, looking to find a relationship, but we want to help you meet love. The boring kind of love, that is safe, secure, healthy and sustainable.
Conscious couples with great relationships
Habits of couples with awesome relationships. We know no pair who has it all together, however, we do know lots of couples who work hard to build happy, healthy, sound relationship bliss. We can be inspired and even learn a thing or two to apply to our own relationships.
Our dream for better relationships
Lemarc Thomas Matchmaking’s mission for a better world through better relationships. A dream called Roots to Love. Imagine a world where we grow up knowing that we are worthy, that we are good, that we are love.
Love in the time of Corona
At Lemarc Thomas matchmaking, we are, as you know, completely offline and there is a basic idea behind it: that with a slow, focused approach, we connect more easily, more and more deeply. But if face-to-face disappears for a while then? Yes, then we have to adapt.
A visualisation tool to manifest the relationship you dream of
Take a moment, close your eyes, allow your attention to go forward in time – perhaps about 5 years into the future, where you are settled in the relationship that you dream of.
Let’s talk (communicate mindfully) about sex
Did you know that we have different sexual languages? Explore, observe, accept and appreciate these differences and it will lead you to deeper connection.
What is a compatible partnership for you?
Are you falling for the wrong people? Being misled by chemistry and hormones? Are you expecting someone to come along and fulfil needs you never knew you had? Not anymore
Books we recommend
We can highly and wholeheartedly recommend getting stuck into these books to learn about and develop your relationships.