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The truth about sparks: Why conscious love is a slow burn

Many of us are conditioned to believe in the allure of the “spark.” This moment is often celebrated in romantic comedies and novels as the start of something magical - the elusive “love at first sight.” But while the idea of a spark is tempting, is it really the foundation of a lasting, healthy relationship? Many experts say no.

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Helen Fisher: What she taught us about love

The world recently lost a pioneer in the scientific study of love. Dr. Helen E. Fisher, renowned biological anthropologist, passed away at the age of 79, leaving behind a legacy that profoundly shaped how we understand romantic love, attraction, and relationships. We honor what she taught us about love.

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It's not always exciting - and that's a good thing

What if the kind of love you're chasing isn't the one you need? What if the real magic lies in a slower, deeper, and more enduring kind of love—the kind that builds a stable foundation for life's greatest adventures? Find out how in this post..

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