Relationship 1 | Relationship 2 | Relationship 3 | ||
How did you meet? | ||||
Who initiated the relationship/encounter? | ||||
What was your first impression of them? | ||||
What quality or feature first attracted you? | ||||
What was the best part of your relationship? | ||||
What didn’t you like about them or the relationship? | ||||
How long did the good part last? | ||||
Who ended it and why? | ||||
What about this relationship gave you fulfilment? | ||||
What was unfulfilled? | ||||
What did you learn about yourself? | ||||
Was this lesson helpful? | ||||
What was the meaning of this relationship to your life today? |
(adapted from Terri Orbuch’s relationship patterns questionnaire)