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How did you meet?
Who initiated the relationship/encounter?
What was your first impression of them?
What quality or feature first attracted you?
What was the best part of your relationship?
What didn’t you like about them or the relationship?
How long did the good part last?
Who ended it and why?
What about this relationship gave you fulfilment?
What was unfulfilled?
What did you learn about yourself?
Was this lesson helpful?
What was the meaning of this relationship to your life today?

 

(adapted from Terri Orbuch’s relationship patterns questionnaire)