Gay relationships and attachment theory It is just us in our little matchmaking bubble, or is Attachment Theory pretty hot right now? Right? No…? Well, it’s always a hot topic at Lemarc Thomas Matchmaking. But when it comes to gay matchmaking – finding and keeping love – how much do we know about gay attachment […]
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What you need to know about dating and relationships in Sweden. As an international matchmaker, I am often asked about the cultural differences between how we love in Sweden compared to other countries. I do appreciate the reminder that we are more alike than we are different, but… the quirks of matchmaking Sweden is […]
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How do you feel about the word dependence? Even typing it right now feelings arise associated with the negative connotations. It’s good to be dependable, but not so good to be dependent. We have learnt to value independence, looking up to those who are self-reliant, self-sufficient, standing strong on their own and letting others lean on […]
How to meet love, introduction and summary People come to us, Matchmakers, looking to find a relationship, but we want to help you meet love. The boring kind of love, that is safe, secure, healthy and sustainable. From which, there is a stable foundation for adventure, excitement, exploration, pain, growth and a shared future combining […]
Habits of couples with awesome relationships There are lots of instagram-perfect relationships out there, but real life relationships are tough. We know no pair who has it all together, however, we do know lots of couples who work hard to build happy, healthy, sound relationship bliss. We are not taught this stuff in school so […]
Roots to Love Lemarc Thomas Matchmaking’s mission for a better world through better relationships. A dream called Roots to Love. Imagine a world where instead of fear, we felt freedom. Where, as babies, our caregivers were emotionally responsive and filled us with unconditional love. As children, our needs for basic safety, self-expression, connection to others, […]
Slow dating offline and online Yes, we know, it might feel like there’s a lot more important things than dating right now. But, we know that in challenging times love and relationships are even more important. When going through something tough, the best thing you can do is be nested in the love of your […]
Visualising the relationship you dream of Take a moment, close your eyes, allow your attention to go forward in time – perhaps about 5 years into the future, where you are settled in the relationship that you dream of. Imagine that you are holding both hands of the person you dream of being with, what […]